Types Of Abuse

Child abuse and domestic violence are linked in a number of important ways that have serious consequences for the safety of children. But with effective intervention and a coordinated response to a child abuse  and domestic violence, battered women advocates, child protective workers, judges and community members can help keep families safer. 

   Children can be injured  as a direct result of domestic violence. Batterers sometimes intentionally injure childern in an effort to intimidate and control their adult partner. These assaults can include physical, emotional, and sexual abuse of the children. Children are also injured - either intentionally or accidentally - during attacks on their mothers. Assaults on younger children may occur while the mother is holding the child. Injuries to older children offten occur when an adolescent attempts to intervene in violent episodes.

   There is a correlation between domestic violence and child abuse. In a national survey of more than 6,000 American families, 50% of the men who frequently assaulted their wives also frquently abused their children.

   Children can be adversely affected by witnessing domestic violence. Although many parents believe that they can hide domestic violence from their children, children living in these homes report differently. Research suggest that between 80 and 90 % of these children are aware of the violence. Even if they do not see a beating, they hear the screams and see the bruises, broken bones, and abraisons sustained by their mothers.

   Infants exposed to violence may not develop the attachments to their caretakers that are critical to their development; in extreme cases they may suffer from " failure to thrive." Preschool children in violent homes may regress developmentally and suffer sleep disturbances, including nightmares. School-age children who witness violence may exhibit a range of problem behaviors including depression, anxiety, and violence toward peers. Adolescents who have grown up in violent homes are at risk for recreating the abusive relationships they have seen.

   While many children experience difficulties resulting from their exposure to violence, many children appear to cope with the experiences and show fewer problems than comparison children. This is likely because the level of violence in families and children's exposure to it vary greatly.

   A growing body of evidence supports the need for early intervention when children show criminal propensities. Research shows that early intervention efftorts are proving effective in reducing criminal and delinquent behavior. The social factors that these early intervention efforts address are similar to those found to be associated with domestic violence and child abuse, and the contribution of family violence is well documented.

    We care about the children and the devastating effects family violence can have on them. Through that care and concern we are dedicating to our precious babies ABWM'S Angel Bear Ministry!

For more info on this report from end abuse.org click on the link below.

" My friend scripture is very clear on how much Our Lord and Savior regards children.

Let's visit a few passenges of Scripture ..."  

And Jesus called a little child unto Him, and set him in the midst of them, Matt. 18:3 And said, Verily I say unto you, except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Matt. 18:4 Whosoever  therefore shall humble himself as this little.child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of Heaven. Matt. 18:5  And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth Me. Matt.18;6 But whos shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it wer better for him a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

" This is truly a stern warning and we must take heed. "Our children are a blessing, they deserve our love, safety and security."

- Evangelist Janice Ward

It should never hurt to be a child 

In general, elder abuse refers to intentional or neglectful acts by a caregiver or “trusted” individual that lead to, or may lead to, harm of a vulnerable elder. Physical abuse; neglect; emotional or psychological abuse; verbal abuse and threats; financial abuse and exploitation; sexual abuse; and abandonment are considered forms of elder abuse. In many states, self-neglect is also considered mistreatment.

CoVID19 taught us just how fragile life is especially for our Elderly Community. There is so much we can learn from our elders. If we take the time to care; they are more than willing to share. Cherish them while you have them.

The Holy Bible teaches us that Wisdom is with the aged in

 Job:12-12-kjv

"With the ancient is Wisdom and in length of days is understanding."

Long life is a gift. It should be filled with Joy not Sorrow.

SEXUAL ABUSE

We hear the silent cries of the victims of sexual assault, molestation and rape. It is our desire to stop the tears by ending the fears of all family violence.  this page is dedicated to all that are touched by  this sensitive and very personal crime.

Our prayers are with you...

Spiritual Help

*Pray for yourself daily GOD will console and comfort you.

*If you don't have a church home unite with one soon there is peace in the house of GOD.

*Dream again... It might sound simple or even impossible. just know that by having something to reach for can be a happy escape from depression and anxiety! 

*If needed seek professional help via Therapy, Counseling etc.

*Make up yor mind to Take your life back'!

*Claim right now that you are not a victim but your VICTORIOUS!

 *Never blame yourself because of another's actions.

*Refuse to see yourself as damaged goods. Everything that GOD made is good!

*Take the necessary time to heal, learn how to love yourself completely. 

*Check your self talk, how do you view you? 

*When you are ready, donate some time to a local crisis center.

We have linked our site to a various helpful websites that will help you.

How to Respond to a Survivor

* When someone you care about tells you they’ve been sexually assaulted or abused, it can be a lot to handle. A supportive reaction can make all the difference, but that doesn’t mean it comes easy. Encouraging words and phrases can avoid judgment and show support for the survivor.

Consider these phrases:

 “I’m sorry this happened.” Acknowledge that the experience has affected their life. Phrases like “This must be really tough for you,” and, “I’m so glad you are sharing this with me,” help to communicate empathy.

* “It’s not your fault.” Survivors may blame themselves, especially if they know the perpetrator personally. Remind the survivor, maybe even more than once, that they are not to blame.

* “I believe you.” It can be extremely difficult for survivors to come forward and share their story. They may feel ashamed, concerned that they won’t be believed, or worried they’ll be blamed. Leave any “why” questions or investigations to the experts—your job is to support this person. Be careful not to interpret calmness as a sign that the event did not occur—everyone responds differently. The best thing you can do is to believe them.

* “You are not alone.” Remind the survivor that you are there for them and willing to listen to their story. Remind them there are other people in their life who care and that there are service providers who will be able to support them as they recover from the experience.

* “Are you open to seeking medical attention?” The survivor might need medical attention, even if the event happened a while ago. You can support the survivor by offering to accompany them or find more information. It’s okay to ask directly, “Are you open to seeking medical care?”

* “You can trust me.” If a survivor opens up to you, it means they trust you. Reassure them that you can be trusted and will respect their privacy. Always ask the survivor before you share their story with others. If a minor discloses a situation of sexual abuse, you are required in most situations to report the crime. Let the minor know that you have to tell another adult, and ask them if they’d like to be involved.

* “This doesn’t change how I think of you.” Some survivors are concerned that sharing what happened will change the way other people see them, especially a partner. Reassure the survivor that surviving sexual violence doesn’t change the way you think or feel about them.

 Continued Support

 There’s no timetable when it comes to recovering from sexual violence. If someone trusted you enough to disclose the event to you, consider the following ways to show your continued support.

    * Avoid judgment. It can be difficult to watch a survivor struggle with the effects of sexual assault for an extended period of time. Avoid phrases that suggest they’re taking too long to recover such as, “You’ve been acting like this for a while now,” or “How much longer will you feel this way?”

    * Check in periodically. The event may have happened a long time ago, but that doesn’t mean the pain is gone. Check in with the survivor to remind them you still care about their well-being and believe their story.

    * Know your resources. You’re a strong supporter, but that doesn’t mean you’re equipped to manage someone else’s health. Become familiar with resources you can recommend to a survivor, like the National Sexual Assault Hotline 800.656.HOPE (4673) and online.rainn.org.

* Remember that the healing process is fluid. Everyone has bad days. Don’t interpret flashbacks, bad days, or silent spells as “setbacks.” It’s all part of the process.

The National Sexual Violent Offenders Registry's Website.

If you or someone you know is or has been a victim of sexual assault or rape please know that GOD knows and cares for you.

Please read the passages of scripture below to learn of GODs provision for you. Our hearts goes out to all of the victims of sexual assault rape and molestation. We encourage you to use your voice against this type of thievery, speak out loud and speak out clear loose yourself from the bondage and self blame sexual abuse can cause.

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"The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted , to proclaim liberty to the captives ,and the opening of the prison to them that are bound ; To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all that mourn;To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified" .-Isaiah 61:1-4

 -SELAH-

 "The thief comes only to kill, steal and destroy"-John 10:10....{Destinies}

Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ said;

"I come that you might have life and that more abundantly" ...               

 Contact us today for our prayer warriors to intercede on your behalf so that you can know and walk in the abundance of GOD's Love and Restoration.

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Speak life over yourself... You are fearfully and wonderfully made!



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Violence should never be tolerated! We all have the right to BE.